Saturday, June 12, 2010

Goodbye to You


1. Have you had to say goodbye to a good friend or lover because they were moving?

Well, in this time of computers, phones and fast travelling moving needn't be a problem, unless it's to another country.

So when one of my lovers moved, it was just a move. I saw him the next saturday.

What made an impact was the move of my study friend, Hans, to america.
He was not a dedicated writer of letters, so it took 9 years to see him again and to experience the friendship was still there.
I'm sure it's still there when we see each other again.
He's moved from america and I assume he's in Belgium now.

2. Have you ever wanted to use personal information about someone to sort of "blackmail" them? If yes, tell us about it.

No. Why? Blackmail? Huh?
I have looked up information about someone to see if the person indeed had been at a course about autism.
It confirmed my intuition and thoughts.
I didn't blackmail her, but calmly told her that by stating to have followed a course, whereas the truth was she hadn/t, she made herself only look stupid because she suggested she wasn't able to put the information and exercises of the course in practice.

3. What two things influenced the choice of your present job or to stay at home?

I've chosen for my children, stay at home, because I think that children need a mom at home more than a mom at a job and an empty house to come home to.
I also think that each period of life should be enjoyed as much as possible, so motherhood means for me being a mom, not being someone striving to have a carreer.
I thought that motherhood is a challenge and an opportunity for personal growth too.
And I will only be a better psychologist when I've had the chance to study child development in real life and not only from books.

4. Do you like warm weather? How warm does it get where you live? What is the best way to spend a hot, summer day?

I like spring best. Warm weather is not really what I like, as it gets very humid here. The past days it has been about 25 tot 27 degrees celcius, but it can be higher in summer.
I try to forget it's as hot as it is, so I'll do things that help me doing so.

5. What do you find "hot" in a man/woman? What is the first thing you notice about someone who is hot? Do you ever think of yourself as hot?

These are not terms Im thinking in.
When I meet people I'm not focussed on their looks, but on my intuition.

6. Are you quick to anger? How do you react when you are angry or frustrated? What do you do to cool down?

No, I'm not easy to anger. Not at all.
When someone or something makes me feel irritated I react rather analytical.
Where does my irritation come from, why does it irritate me?
Most of the time that's enough to stop the irritation.

I'm rather honest in my reaction: "I feel I'm irritated, because..."

Cooling down: most of the time understanding is the perfect way to deal with it.
Blogging helps too, or talking to someone else. When that doesn't help my highland bagpipes sound it out for me. LOL!

7. In your family, who is the least like the rest of you?

We're all unique. Haha!!

8. What are a few great books that you've taken along to the beach or on vacation in years past? If you aren't a big reader, what do you do to while away the lazy hours?

No vacation....
I like reading, but I'm OK with short stories or books that enable me to read a small piece and think about it.

Lazy hours are not often part of my life, but I like doing all sorts of things. Gardening, writing a bit, doing something creative.

9. Do you like going outside during a thunderstorm and watching the lightening?


But the past years lightning has become more vertical and as we live not too far from a like I'm always careful.

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