Monday, June 29, 2009

Manic Monday #174

june 29 2009

What is the longest love relationship (partner) you have had, and if it has ended, why?

I don't count love in years.
And "love"... what's love?

I married after 1.5 years of seeing each other every day. We studied together, ate together, and changed into living together in the same house and spending the nights too.

That's 29 years ago.

The love changed into loveless gradually when I realized it was not love that pushed him towards me, but convenience and pleasant habits.
And those pleasant habits.. well..., they disappeared.
I turned out to be married to someone autistic, who didn't care about my feelings.
Instead of partying at our 25th wedding anniversary we were at a lawyer to divorce.
We didn't finalize it when the government changed so many things regarding financial situations of divorcees and regarding child care, that it was clear the divorce would deteriorate the lack of care for my autistic kids even further.

So we're in the same house now for 29 years, with the agreement we'll legally divorce as soon as I meet a new partner.

I doubt I'll meet someone new, but it would be nice to be hugged.

What is on your bedside table?

Alarm, small basket with thingies like lipcare. Some old letters, some giraffes from my collection (one keeps my glasses on his head at night).

How many pillows do you have on your bed? Do you make your bed every day?

6 pillows, but I sleep on 2.

You're cheating...these are two questions.

No, I don't make my bed every day, but I pull it straight, so that almost does the job.

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  1. love is something strange don`t you think ??

  2. I did not catch that, but you are right that was two questions in one lol :) Love can be a very hard thing to figure out.

  3. Love is complicated. And yes it feels good to be hug and kiss.

    Many pillows club! =)

    Happy blogging!


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